Sandi,
I'm finding it very difficult to express to you how very sorry I am for your heartbreaking loss, so here are some fond memories I have of Scott that may help in some small way. After years of working with you and Scott, I found that Scott was very compassionate and proud of his family, and held you in high esteem. He was always telling me what a special person you were to him and was always looking for some way to express that to you.
One time he chastised me for a sloppy wrapping job on a gift I wrapped for David, and for not taking the time to do a better job. He said that he always put a lot of effort and care in wrapping gifts for you because it wasn't just the gift, but it was also an expression of how important it was to him to make sure everything about his gift was perfect for you. He was a good judge of character, because he recognized just how beautiful, inside and out, you truly are.
He was always willing to help others and exhibited a lot of pride in doing a good job. When my 4-year old daughter's cat died, I told Scott how upset she got and was asking for Cosmo's ashes, and how I didn't have the heart to tell her I didn't have his ashes. The next day, Scott showed up at work with a jar of ashes he scooped out of his fireplace, with "Cosmo RIP" stenciled on the front of the jar, with a curled ribbon around the top. Needless to say, Marianne was thrilled with it, and she kept it on her shelf for years to come. Every time I looked at that jar, I thought of how considerate Scott was.
I loved Scott's sense of humor and how he would sometimes elicit that high little giggle at times when he was really tickled at something. He would also make me laugh with his amazingly good impressions of others, in a good-natured way, of course. Even after all these years, I still sometimes chuckle to myself remembering something Scott said, or did.
Sandi, I'm finding it very difficult to express to you how very sorry I am for your heartbreaking loss. Scott was very compassionate and proud of his family, and held you in high esteem. He was always telling me what a special person you were to him and was always looking for some way to express that to you.
One time he chastised me for a sloppy wrapping job on a gift I wrapped for David, and for not taking the time to do a better job. He said that he always put a lot of effort and care in wrapping gifts for you because it wasn't just the gift, but it was also an expression of how important it was to him to make sure everything about his gift was perfect for you. He was a good judge of character, because he recognized just how beautiful, inside and out, you are.
He was always willing to help others and exhibited a lot of pride in doing a good job. When my 4-year old daughter's cat died, I told Scott how upset she got and was asking for Cosmo's ashes, and how I didn't have the heart to tell her I didn't request his ashes. The next day, Scott showed up at work with a jar of ashes he scooped out of his fireplace, with "Cosmo RIP" stenciled on the front of the jar, with a curled ribbon around the top. Needless to say, Marianne was thrilled with it, and she kept it on her shelf for years to come. Every time I looked at that jar, I thought of how considerate Scott was.
I loved Scott's sense of humor and how he would sometimes elicit that high little giggle at times when he was really tickled at something. He would also make me laugh with his amazingly good impressions of others, in a good-natured way, of course. Even after all these years, I still sometimes chuckle to myself remembering something Scott said, or did.
The numerous times I witnessed the endearing relationship you exhibited with each other always warmed my heart, and I consider myself fortunate for having the honor of knowing both of you. I hope your wonderful memories of him will make you smile and feel stronger, as time goes by.
With love,
Carol & David Thornton