A treasured memory I have of Uncle John is when I visited Uncle Sean and Aunt Mary at their Longboat Key house to invite the Florida Bucklins to Maggie's and my wedding, so this would have been about ten years ago. I walked into Uncle Sean and Aunt Mary's living room to find an array of welcoming Bucklins, dear relatives I hadn't seen in a while and who had assembled to greet me. Uncle John not surprisingly was the life of the party, and at one point the conversation turned to military history. Being a history buff and knowing Uncle John was into naval artillery, I mentioned knowing about the Confederate guns that pounded Fort Sumter to start the Civil War. "They were Parrott guns, Uncle John, two r's and two t's," I said in a cocky voice to get a rise out of him. Uncle John cackled in delight, and boomed out, "By God, he is a Bucklin!" I have never been more pleased over a compliment in my entire life. I know Uncle John was a Master Chief and not an officer, but at that moment I felt I had been piped aboard the USS Bucklin commanded by Captain John Bucklin, who had just announced to the entire crew that I was a worthwhile shipmate. He hadn't seen me in quite a long time and would have had every right to be reserved, but he announced on the spot that he would come to the wedding in Connecticut, which he did, and made me feel like the most special nephew ever. Getting "By God, he is a Bucklin!" would make for a rather long tattoo, though I have considered it, but Uncle John's approving comment that day meant the world to me, and will always be tattooed on my heart. I had not been the most dutiful of relatives, but Uncle John made it clear he was not judging. I am proud to share a name with him, proud to say that Willliam Hartwell Bucklin met with favor from John Hartwell Bucklin. Sad though I am at his passing, I will never feel I have lost him.