Craig,
Since there has always just been 18 months between us all these years, it’s been an interesting journey.
I don’t have any trouble picking out something very special to me and I think it was for you too.
The last time we saw mom in the hospital, we left to go to the beach we had been on many times as kids. It seemed appropriate after the tough time it was for us to make the decision to remove life-support from her. A very tough day.
Sitting on my desk to this day is the photograph that you took of me taking a photograph of the sunset. Little did we know that while we were there our mom would pass away.
What was significant about this is that in the several years following this part of our journey, we were more close than we had ever been….Talking often on the phone and sending things back-and-forth to each other. One of the special things was a little gift that you sent me that remains on my refrigerator till this day. It is a small wooden piece that is wrapped with papers like a gift with a ribbon and a card that says:
“ This is a very special gift
That you can never see
The reason it so special is
It’s just for you, from me.
Whenever you’re lonely
Or even feeling blue
You only have to hold this gift
And know I think of you.
You never can unwrap it
Please leave the ribbon tied
Just hold the box close to your heart
It’s filled with love inside.”
And this, Craig, is what I CHOOSE to remember from all of our years.
Much love,
Cheryl 💕🙏